no u dont get it friend
depending that much on another human being aint good 4 either of u duckies
if ur happiness, well-being, and sanity all depend on the existence of one person, there is something terribly wrong there
it can be even worse for ur partner because then they have all this pressure on them and they literally have a life in their hands that could end if they make one wrong move to make u unhappy
THE POINT I AM TRYING TO MAKE: if your life depends on someone else then u need help
i will admit though that being codependent isn’t bad until it gets to that point. You can’t be dependent your whole life because eventually you’re gonna break down and need help from another person. humans are social creatures as much as the teenage society wants to disagree. we all need someones help at one point or another.
It’s okay to depend on other people. It’s just when that dependency becomes the only reason for your mental health and physical well-being that something has to be done about it.
All in all, I’m sick of getting constant replies and asks about that specific posts and will no longer acknowledge them past this point!!